Should I come out as atheist to my family?

hon, surprisingly for you...the priest who is initiating your confirmation agenda can help you with this..you need to talk to him;; trust me, he will be more open-minded about this than your family will...start there....honestly!!! he's not gonna try to convince you, but he will side with his religion, & tell you how to proceed with this....good luck, but your family will NOT take this lightly...